Brides seem to come in two catagories.  Those who “know” they need a wedding coordinator/planner/consultant and those who think they don’t.

Of course it is my opinion that every bride needs a consultant, at the very least a month-of-coordinator.  Why?  Well, let’s go over a few different scenarios.

1.)  Your location (venue) provides a “free” coordinator?  This is the most common misconception.  The “free” or “included in your room fee” coordinator is great to have, and as a bridal consultant they can be a huge help.  BUT, you need to understand that this person is usually just responsible for getting you and your bridal party down the aisle.

He/She will probably not sit out your favors, centerpieces, candles, etc. nor will this person fix your hair if it falls, get out the red lipstick that fell onto your dress, they will not steam your flowergirls dress or make sure you have something to eat/drink before get sick from nerves.  This person is probably not going to “fix” the groom’s tux when the sleeves are too short/long or make sure he has a hankerchif for when a tear comes to your eye.  There are several things that a location provided coordinator is not responsible for.  Consider this when you are making arrangements for your beautiful wedding day.

2.)  Your Mom/Sister/friend said she would LOVE to help you out that day!  This is the worst scenario.  While it is incredibly nice of this person to offer to assist, it is definitly not fair to them.  Your Mother/Sister/Friend should be able to relax and enjoy the event like any other guest.  If you really want to show appreciation for someone- do not give them a list of things to do before/after the wedding and reception.  I promise they will feel appreciated if you have hired someone to take care of everything.

3.)  Your budget does not allow for the luxury of a bridal consultant.  There is often a misconception that a wedding planner or bridal consultant will cost way too much.  While there are many different ranges of pricing out there, a professional bridal consultant will actually save you money.  I know, it is hard to believe, but it is true.  Some ways they are able to save are through discounts from preferred vendors, crafty ideas and creativity, understanding the market and making suggestions to help you choose the right menu, flowers and venue as well as by providing various decor items.

Your wedding should be an enjoyable experience.  From the inital engagement to the first dance, an excellent bridal consultant or wedding planner will make those moments and memories an amazing experience to remember.